I go to your blog, and within 30 seconds there is the music playing. I have to go and find the bloody player (which is always down at the bottom of the blog, searching -- searching I go...) and push the pause button. If I forget and try to watch the lovely video that you have posted, it becomes a cacophony.
If I go to someone else's blog in another window, I have several of them playing.
I love you guys, but I don't necessarily love your music. What about putting the player at the beginning of the blog and I can click pause as I read your newest post?