I have a suggestion for the end of the year. Even if you don't read this until 2011, you can still do it.
New Year resolutions can be good, but even better is to give yourself credit for what you have already accomplished. My suggestion is to write a list of what you accomplished over 2010.
Be kind to yourself, give yourself some credit. It can be achievements at work, your personal life, spiritual life, all areas. And nothing is too small. Has some relationship in your life improved? Have you become more creative? Have you created pages in your art journal? Are you less afraid in some area? Have you gone forward with a health challenge? Achieved more self acceptance? Recovered from a heartbreak? Exercised regularly, or just more? Been helpful to someone? List it all, however small.
The truth is, we don't actually know what is little or big --
so I suggest you write it ALL down.
Give yourself some credit for what you have done this past year.
By the way, I wrote my list this morning in bed. It feels good.